Have you heard someone say, ‘I didn’t rescue my dog; he rescued me’?
I wish I could say the same about Moose. But, honestly...he’s pretty damn spoiled. I mean, he gets to watch soap operas and sip chardonnay all day while I’m at work.
(Is there a rescue group for struggling adults? Asking for a friend.)
However, I can say my handmade jewelry business rescued me.
When I started college, I didn’t think about the possibility of not getting a job. I just thought that’s what happened. College graduation = job.
*me and my Dad off to college (notice his excitement and my uncertainty)
Fate has a way of laughing at the foolish.
But June 2003 was the beginning of the downturn in hiring. And, wouldn’t you know it, I was graduating one day and moving back in with my parents the next.
I swore to myself it would never happen. But, there I was in my parents spare bedroom, a college graduate with no job. Dreams dashed. Plans for world domination, extinguished (temporarily). I began applying to anything and everything.
I started hostessing at a restaurant and then scored a cocktail waitressing job at a local casino. Shortly after that, I got an interview for an internship program.
And by the spring, my bags were packed and I left Washington State for my first ‘adult’ job that sorta kinda used my degree. Okay, not really, but it beat the labor intensive (and back breaking) cocktail waitressing.
Shortly after starting my new job, fate laughed at me again. I realized:
1. Adulting is hard
2. There are few options out there for women who like to wear colorful jewelry (that doesn’t look like it belongs to a 12-year-old)
3. Entry level work = not a lot of money to buy colorful jewelry for work
The idea was sparked! It would take a moment, but that’s when Kate and Moose rescued me. By handcrafting my own jewelry, I added a bit of joy and color into my dreary corporate cubicle life.
Running a successful handmade jewelry business has taught me a few things about not taking life too seriously. While also being serious….seriously.
First, get comfortable with failure
Do you think the first pair of earrings I created look good?
Hell yeah! They were fabulous. But the second pair - let's call them a learning experience.
Whether you want a raise, a new job, or to start your own side hustle, get comfortable with failure. Greet that salty bitch with a firm handshake. Success won’t happen overnight. Don’t compare your beginning to someone else’s middle --- comparisonitis kills.
But, when you do succeed, celebrate it! Every time my phone rings out like a cash register (I MADE A SALE!), I do a little happy dance. Every. Single. Time (drives Moose to drink more chardonnay).
Then, get uncomfortable with life
There won’t ever be a time where you feel 100% ready for anything. Like, having a kid, starting a business, buying a home, rescuing a dog, or getting married.
So, get outside of your comfort zone!
I questioned how much inventory I would need and whether I was "good enough" long before I applied to my first craft show. But, I signed up for local festivals and got in front of people and started selling jewelry. Other like-minded business owners helped me learn how to file taxes, apply for shows, and even handle my first negative review.
When you put yourself out there, you’re able to find the support you need to succeed. You can not just exist in this life. You have got to try to live.
Also, find inspiration in (un)obvious places
Everyone knows you can find inspiration in nature, music, and Ryan Gosling’s eyes.
But, I love to look in unusual places for inspiration for my work. I listen in on conversations at coffee shops. I savor every bite of my meal. I stop to notice what’s around me (when I’m not in the middle of traffic -- learned that the hard way). And I invest in continuous education, like photography.
*a photo of my first sale
Because the key is to break the cycle
Do something different. It can be as simple as adding a pop of color to your wardrobe or as adventurous as skydiving (if you need a recommendation in CO or DC, drop me a line). If you aren’t sure where to start, why not let this pair of earrings rescue you?
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